She's Got Her Toes In The Water & Her Head In The Sand...

Heaven's Newest Angel...

There is a new angel playing amongst the heavens today...
She sings and dances and tells fabulous stories that mystify those around her...
Our hearts break knowing our time with her on this earth is no more...
Those who have gone before us rejoice to have her with them once again.

The following is a tribute I wrote to my Aunt Eva several months back. I publish it again today as a memorial to her glorious spirit and to the privilege each of us were given by having her as a part of our lives. May she rest in peace.

Privilege

As children my brother and I lived a very "privileged" life. We spent many hours entertained by a jester, a magician, a clown, a musician, a body surfer and a professional story teller...just to mention a few.

We searched the "mountains" for arrow heads and went on great adventures through the "forest". And hidden in this "forest" was our own personal wishing well where we tossed pennies, made wishes and had no doubt they would all come true.

We were regaled by fairy tales and stories of "Little Black Sambo" and we knew beyond a doubt that the "hokey-pokey" was really what its all about.

Some children have a favorite stuffed animal, a doll or a blanket. Reece and I? We had Aunt Eva!

Aunt Eva was sheer entertainment. There was nothing she wasn't up for. Whether it was hiking the lake roads, a ride in the back of the pick-up, body surfing the lake "waves" or just "one more story".

Our "privileged" life included hours spent in a simple old house turned daycare or a frame lake cabin complete with wood burning stove and an outhouse or maybe just hanging out at home.

We thought Aunt Eva was all ours - because she made us feel like she was. What we didn't understand at the time is that she made everyone feel that way. She wasn't just an Aunt - she was a Nurse, a day care operator, a Wife, a Mother, a Grandmother, a sister, a daughter and a friend among many other things. And in each of those roles she made the people she interacted with feel like they were the most important people in the world. I would love to know how many births she participated in in her career. How many children she cared for. How many nursing students she mentored. How many lives she touched.

Aunt Eva recently celebrated her 85th birthday. She's no longer tracking through the woods or body surfing the waves. Her days of birthing babies are long since past but her eyes still twinkle and seeing her smile and hearing her stories fills my heart with joy.

We had the opportunity to see her over the summer at our family reunion. She and Reece were discussing her health and she told him the doctor had told her that her heart was just "no good". Later Reece told me about the conversation and we chuckled knowing "no good" was probably not the description the doctor had used.

In truth Aunt Eva's heart is tired and doesn't work like it used to but we know there's not a better heart out there. It's a heart of gold. A heart that has touched an innumerable number of lives. A heart that has nurtured imaginations, loved unconditionally and spread joy to whomever it touched.

Yes, Reece and I led a "privileged" childhood...privilege that no amount of money could have bought. We were loved, shaped and cared for by an exceptional lady with an exceptional heart - a heart weathered by time but ever strong in spirit.

Beach Baby...

We found Playa as we last left her...charming and beautiful.

Playa is truly my "happy place"!

The summer's trip included the usual cast of characters plus a few new additions.

The "newbies" included...

Reece, Sandra & Taylor (not his first trip!) & McKae...

Haley (not her first rodeo either!) and Buck...

And, of course, Cate.

This photo of Cate's "Abuelo" introducing her to the beach absolutely melts my heart...


Cate is the quintessential beach baby.

She loved everything about it.

She loved the water...

She loved the waves...

She loved the sand...


Oh, how she loved the sand!

I've Got Mexico In Mind...

Adios realidad...


Hola lugar feliz...

El tiempo de vacaciones esta' aqui'...

Hasta que nos encontremos otra vez...

Our Own Little Mermaid...

Cate's first swim...

For good...

Today I had the pleasure of seeing the musical Wicked performed at the Music Hall at Fair Park in Dallas. It is a fabulous tale of friendship, sacrifice and love. It made me laugh, it made me cry and it filled my heart with appreciation as it reminded me of how blessed I am to have some special girls in my life..."Because I knew you, I have been changed for good."

For Good - From Wicked

I've heard it said

That people come into our lives for a reason

Bringing something we must learn

And we are led

To those who help us most to grow

If we let them

And we help them in return

Well, I don't know if I believe that's true

But I know I'm who I am today

Because I knew you...

Like a comet pulled from orbit

As it passes a sun

Like a stream that meets a boulder

Halfway through the wood

Who can say if I've been changed for the better?

But because I knew you

I have been changed for good.

Well, it may never be

That we'll meet again

In this lifetime

So let me say before we part

So much of me

Is made of what I learned from you

You'll be with me

Like a hand print on my heart

And now whatever way our stories end

I know you have rewritten mine

By being my friend...

Like a ship blown from its mooring

By a wind off the sea

Like a seed dropped by a skybird

In a distant wood

Who can say if I've been changed for the better?

But because I knew you

Because I knew you

I have been changed for good.

"He" Didn't Deserve The Credit...

Well, it turns out the eye problem was not autoimmune related thank the good Lord.  I simply had a good old fashioned eye infection. 

It started out in the left eye and ended up settling in the right eye too before it was all said and done. 

Seven days of drops and gel, three trips to the Opthamologist and I'm good as new. 

My immediate decision that the redness had to be autoimmune related is a great example of my never-ending fear of that dang 'ole tenant of mine. 

I really must learn not to give "him" so much credit!